Are you ready to manifest your soulmate?
You can see them galloping towards you on a gallant white steed, the sun glistening on the top of their head and cascading down their silver armor while they sweep you off your feet.
Or maybe you see them in a much less cheesy TV-style place like the grocery store or a party.
However you see yourself meeting the person you want to grow old and gray with, you know you want someone.
That perfect person that just gets you.
They give you butterflies when they walk in a room.
They support you, love you and cherish you and all your hopes and dreams.
It’s magical, isn’t it?
Great…so how do you actually attract this person to you?
How do you manifest your soulmate???
It’s actually much easier than you think and it doesn’t require any poison apples or love potions.
How to Manifest Your Soulmate
1. Be Clear on What You Want
Whether you hear wedding bells or not, the biggest secret to attracting and manifesting your soulmate is to know what you want.
And I mean down to the very last detail.
Because human beings come in all different packages, I’m not talking about the details of how your soulmate looks but more so, how the relationship looks and feels.
Here are some qualities to think about:
- How do you want to feel in this relationship?
- What does your soulmate value?
- How do they handle stressful situations?
- What is their love language? Does it match with what you’re comfortable with?
- How do they show respect for you?
- Are they driven?
- Do they make you laugh?
- Are they supportive?
Ask yourself questions and really get a feel for what you want in a soulmate.
Take into consideration your values and what values you want your soulmate to have as well.
Go deep with this because this is really important when choosing and manifesting a life partner.
2. Script or Visualize The Future You Want to See
How many times have you found yourself reading a book and creating pictures in your head of how the characters looked?
The way they walk.
The way they sound, talk, eat, live.
Well, you’re the author of your own story so guess what?
You get to create whatever image you want and you can do this in two different ways.
Scripting and visualization.
Scripting is the act of writing down in detail what you wish to see in your life and you do it as if it’s already happened.
You write it out as if you’re 10 minutes after you’ve met your soulmate or married them or gone on vacation with them or what it is you want to see.
Visualization is very similar but is done in your mind with pictures and images instead of writing it down on a piece of paper.
Seeing and feeling into your soulmate and creating that picture in your mind can help raise your vibration, and put your subconscious mind into search mode so that you can create opportunities to meet your soulmate.
I offer 1:1 sessions with a proven visualization technique to help you get your subconscious mind involved in manifesting what you want. Learn more here.
3. Create Space for your Soulmate
Creating space can be done on both a physical level and a mental level.
Both are very important when it comes to manifesting your soulmate as well as anything else you want to call into your life with the Law of Attraction.
Creating space on a physical level can look like making room in your closet for your soulmate’s clothes.
Adding a second pillow to your bed.
Or even clearing time in your schedule to take inspired action that aligns you with finding a soulmate such as going to the park, a dating website or anything else.
Creating space on a mental level can mean removing any blocks or limiting beliefs and thoughts that pop up when it comes to attracting your soulmate.
Believing it’s possible for you plays a big role in attracting who you want.
Think about it like this.
You have two people hit on the same person at the bar.
One believes he has all the qualities you’re looking for and is confident (not cocky) in talking to you regardless of the outcome.
The other is second-guessing everything they’re saying, putting themselves down and “knows” it’s not going to work out.
Which one is more likely to get a date?
Believe it’s possible for you to find your soulmate, believe in your ability to attract and create your reality and believe in yourself.
There are 101 ways to get rid of and reduce limiting beliefs and thoughts and this is something I can help you with during my 1:1 sessions. You can learn more here.
4. Embody the Qualities and Values you want to Attract
Have you ever heard that like attracts like?
Like vibrations attract like vibrations.
If you’re feeling really good, happy and excited, you’re more likely to attract all the good things into your day. And vise versa.
This is also true for the people you want to attract into your lives.
The best, easiest and quickest way to attract your soulmate is to embody the qualities and values you want to attract.
Be the person you want to attract.
Set boundaries for things you will not tolerate, and create your soulmate within your self.
This creates a vibration within you that attracts anyone who holds that same vibration and it works for soulmates and even deep friendships.
Working on yourself is one of the most fulfilling relationships you can work on.
Start with you first, and watch the type of people who start coming into your life.
5. Take Inspired and Aligned Action
Unless the pizza man is your soulmate, they’re probably not going to come knocking on your door without you having to so much as open the door and boom, you’re in love.
Put yourself in situations where you might meet people.
If you normally work at home all day, go to a coffee shop for the afternoon.
When your friend asks you out for drinks, go to the bar and enjoy your self.
Here’s the thing, people aren’t just going to float into your life on a silver cloud. They need to know you’re out there, they need to see you, and get the opportunity to meet you.
So put yourself out there.
And create the opportunity to meet your soulmate.
If you’re unsure of where to go or what to do, listen to your intuition.
When you get a nudge to join that online dating site, do it.
If you find yourself taking a different route home, trust that you were supposed to.
Trust the process, take the action and trust your intuition and the Universe to align all people, places and things in your favor.
6. Stay Open to all Possibilities
You have no idea how life will play out.
And yes, you can script and visualize but at the end of the day, it may not look exactly like it did in your mind because it will look way better than you could ever imagine.
Sometimes opportunities come to us in a purple polka-dotted package when we were expecting a green striped package.
Don’t discard the green striped package just because it looks a bit different.
Remember that life is way more fun with surprises.
Stay open to all possibilities of how your soulmate will come into your life and focus more on the qualities and values you want as well as how you want to feel when you’re in that relationship.
When it’s your soulmate, you will know based on how you feel, not on how it came about.
Manifesting your Soulmate is 100% Possible
You can manifest your soulmate with ease and it can be fun.
But it all starts with you.
Be the person you want to attract, ask for what you want, believe it’s possible and enjoy the ride of finding the one you want to sit on that front porch with when you’re old and gray.